Throughout my early adulthood I did not have much of an opinion of those individuals that were in favor of abortion, but I did always know that it wouldn't be an option for me. My point of view was that I didn't have any place judging others on their decisions. These individuals would know, more than myself, whether or not it was the right decision for themselves. However, my opinion of abortion has changed drastically in recent years. I can confidently say that I am now 100% against abortion. Being a young mother of two, I can sympathize with other scared and unprepared parents. My first son was conceived at the ripe age of twenty-one and needless to say it was a surprise, but a much welcomed surprise. My husband and myself learned really quickly what it was to be a responsible parent in a committed relationship. We were in it together for the long haul. It seems as though many young people today have been raised to be selfish and self-centered. Abortion has become an easy way out for careless individuals who are scared of responsibility. Children are gift from God and should be treated as such.
Recently, I had a close family member find themselves in a similar position as myself, young and unprepared. However, they chose a much different outcome to my disappointment. It was at this moment that I knew that abortion is not something I could ever support. Abortion does not just affect the woman involved, but the entire family. This beautiful and innocent child will never be able to feel the love that we as a family were prepared to give to them. Today, the couple has decided to part ways, and this has been difficult for everyone. My heart aches every time I think about the baby that I will never get to meet and love.
Please notice that I never stated that I was against pro-choice. I do believe that their are extremely special circumstances where a woman should be allowed to make the difficult decision of whether or not to have an abortion. Instances of rape and molestation are touchy matters and these women should never be judged when deciding to abort. Their circumstances were forced upon them without any regard for their well being.
My children are nothing short of a blessing and I thank God for them each and every day. I just wish that others would act responsibly or take responsibility for their actions. Life is not something to take lightly.
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I could not agree with you more! Like you, I did not have much of an opinion on abortion until I really understood what it entailed. Now, I am totally against it. However, I am glad that you noted you are not against pro-choice. Unfortunately there are far too many circumstances in which abortion may be an option. And we as outsiders should not tell a victim of rape or molestation what to do. I too believe that children are a gift straight from God that we should be extremely thankful for. Very nice post Candice!!
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with your position! I understand that abortion is a woman's choice and as a man people say I shouldn't have an opinion on the subject but I still have a very strong one. I too would say that I not against pro-choice just I couldn't ever do it if I was a woman. I think that rape and molestation are gray areas that are hard to compare to regular abortion cases. But I really disagree with women who have unprotected sex and then use abortion as a way out. How about using a condom or birth control as a way out? I think that in our world today people make abortion seem like it is as easy as returning an item at Wal-Mart. I feel that they don't think of what they are doing. I always pose the question; What if the baby you are aborting could have been the next Albert Einstein or Ghandi? You are very insightful Candice! I always love reading your posts! Thanks! :)
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